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Disconnect to Reconnect: My Journey of Taking a Step Back


Lately, I've found myself overwhelmed by the never-ending buzz of social media—the endless notifications, the pressure to keep up, and the constant influx of everyone else's lives. So much drama, so many opinions, and so many voices trying to drown out our own. It’s easy to lose ourselves in the chaos, isn’t it? I realized that I was getting caught up in it all and losing sight of what’s truly important: my own well-being, my growth, and the peace that I work so hard to maintain.

So, I decided to do something that felt a bit radical in today’s digital age—I took a few days away from social media. I shut down the apps, silenced the noise, and made a conscious decision to get back to the basics, to find out what my soul truly needed at this moment. It wasn’t easy at first, but that’s how I knew it was necessary.

The Power of Silence

The first day felt strange. There was an urge to reach for my phone, almost like a reflex, every few minutes. It’s incredible how much we’ve conditioned ourselves to need that constant connection, even when it’s not healthy. But as the hours turned into days, I began to feel lighter. The silence allowed me to truly listen—to myself, to my thoughts, to the whispers of what my heart had been trying to tell me all along.

I found myself gravitating towards things that I had pushed aside—journaling, reading a book without interruptions, coloring (something that always brings me back to my inner child), and even just sitting with my own thoughts. It’s amazing how much clarity you gain when you allow yourself to be still. I could hear my own voice again, and it was so much stronger, more loving, and more supportive than the chaotic noise of social media.

Refocusing on What Matters

These days away gave me the space to re-evaluate what truly matters to me. It’s easy to get swept up in other people’s stories, to measure our worth by the number of likes, comments, and followers we have. But the truth is, none of that defines us. I realized that what truly matters is the impact I have on the lives around me, the genuine connections I foster, and the inner peace I work so hard to protect.

I was reminded of why I started my journey as a life coach in the first place—to help others heal, to be a guiding light for those dealing with trauma, sobriety, and finding their inner child again. It’s not about the validation that comes from a screen; it’s about the real, raw connections I make with people who need someone to understand their pain, someone who’s walked a similar path.

The Drama Trap

Let’s be real: social media is full of drama. It’s like an endless loop of people trying to prove themselves, seeking validation, and sometimes, tearing others down just to feel a sense of power. I found myself getting sucked into it—reading the comments, reacting to the negativity, and sometimes even questioning my own journey. But stepping away helped me see that this drama is just a distraction. It pulls us away from our purpose and keeps us from focusing on our own growth.

By taking a step back, I reminded myself that I don’t have to engage with the negativity. I don’t have to allow it to take up space in my mind or dictate how I feel about myself. I get to choose the energy I bring into my life, and I choose peace, love, and authenticity.

What I Learned from This Break

  1. Boundaries Are Essential: It’s okay to disconnect when things get overwhelming. Protecting our mental and emotional space is a form of self-love, and it’s one that we should never feel guilty about.

  2. Our Worth Is Not Defined by Others: We don’t need external validation to know that we are valuable, worthy, and deserving of love. Our worth comes from within, and that’s something no one can take away from us.

  3. Quality Over Quantity: It’s not about how many followers we have or how many likes we get; it’s about the genuine connections we make, the lives we touch, and the impact we have on the world around us.

  4. We Have the Power to Choose: We can choose what we allow into our lives, and we have the power to walk away from anything that doesn’t serve us.

Moving Forward with Intention

This break was exactly what I needed to realign with my purpose. I’m coming back with a clearer mind, a fuller heart, and a stronger sense of who I am. I’m more committed than ever to helping others on their journey to healing, to embracing their true selves, and to stepping out of the shadows of others’ expectations.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the noise of social media or the drama that comes with it, I encourage you to take a break, even if it’s just for a day. Disconnect to reconnect with yourself, and I promise you’ll come back with a clearer understanding of what truly matters to you.

Remember, you are more than the likes, comments, and shares. You are a powerful, beautiful soul with a purpose, and no amount of online noise can ever change that. Take the time to listen to your own voice, and you’ll find all the answers you’ve been searching for.

Until next time, keep shining, keep healing, and keep being unapologetically you.

With love and light,
DeAnna

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