“Still Tuned In, Huh? Here’s a Little Something for Your Viewing Pleasure.”

So here’s the funny part...
I never even publicized that last blog. Didn’t share it. Didn’t tag it. Didn’t whisper a word about it.

And yet — 15 reads.

Fifteen.

And believe me, I know who some of y’all are. One of you in particular is a walking, talking pot-stirrer with a PhD in Drama and a full-time job in Everyone Else’s Business. You got so little going on in your own life that mine has apparently become your favorite reality show.

But here’s the thing —
I’ve been out of your orbit for almost two years. As of June 5, 2025, to be exact. Two years of peace, growth, and rebuilding what you had no part in breaking.

So tell me, with all due disrespect —
What the hell are you still doing here?

I don’t talk about you.
I don’t check your pages.
I don’t mention your name.
Hell, I forgot you existed.

Meanwhile, you?
You're clocked in like you're earning a salary — watching my posts, reading my words, and running back to whisper about what you think it all means.

You don’t support me.
You don’t speak to me.
But you sure as hell keep tabs like I’m your latest obsession.

For what? Validation? Entertainment? Jealousy?
Whatever your reason, honey, it’s sad.

I walked away. I moved on. And I’ve kept to myself.
But apparently, watching me glow up, show up, and speak up really grinds your gears.

And trust me, that’s not my problem.
It’s yours.

So let me say this loud enough for the folks way in the back:
If the show makes you sick — turn off the damn TV.
If the door’s been closed for two years — stop peeking through the peephole.
If I bother you that much — stop clicking my name.

I’m not hiding. I’m not performing.
I’m just living. And apparently, that’s still too much for you to handle.

So the next time you feel the itch to check up on me...
Ask yourself:
Why does someone else’s peace threaten you so much?
Because honey, if my healing bothers you —

Let this be your official notice:
You’re not on my radar. But clearly, I’m still living in yours — rent-free, lights on, throwing a damn party.

So please, keep watching.
And if you’re gonna stalk me, at least hit the like button. It’s the least you can do for the free entertainment.

#Unbothered #LetItGoAlready #KeepWatching #HealingOutLoud #MindYourBusiness #PersonalGrowth #DramaFreeZone #BlockedAndBlessed #AccountabilityHurts #SomebodyNeededToHearThis

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