By Ryan — Written from the inside, surrounded by concrete, steel, and men who live by rules no one talks about but everyone bleeds for.
There’s a whole set of laws in here that ain’t printed on any handbook, posted on any wall, or endorsed by any warden. They’re older than the buildings, older than the fences, older than the officers trying to enforce “policy.”
They’re called the convict code.
And let me tell you something — you don’t follow this code because you want to. You follow it because the moment you don’t, you’re either done, checked in, or buried under a reputation you will never outrun.
People on the outside talk like they know prison. They watch a documentary and suddenly they’re scholars of “inmate culture.”
But in here? You learn fast — or you don’t survive long enough to learn at all.
Let me break it down as real as it gets.
1. Don’t Talk. Don’t Snitch. Don’t Chirp. Don’t Whisper. Don’t Hint.
Out there, people run their mouths like it’s a sport — telling on each other, gossiping, playing hero with information that ain’t theirs.
In here?
Your mouth will get you hurt faster than any weapon.
If you see something? You didn’t.
If you hear something? You didn’t.
Information is currency and poison at the same time. Handle it wrong, and someone pays the price. Usually you.
And for the record — the biggest “snitches” in any prison?
Ain’t the inmates.
It’s the staff.
But you didn’t hear that from me.
2. Mind Your Business Like Your Life Depends On It — Because It Does
Out there, people love sticking their nose where it doesn’t belong.
In here?
You keep that nose pointed straight ahead unless you want it broken sideways.
Don’t stare into other cells.
Don’t ask personal questions.
Don’t comment on someone’s case, time, girl, or hustle.
And for the love of God — don’t ask what someone’s in for unless they bring it up first.
You respect space because space is the only privacy a man has in a cage.
3. Don’t Owe Nobody Nothing
Debt kills in prison.
You borrow a ramen today, you might owe a body tomorrow.
You take something small, and suddenly someone thinks they own you.
If you can’t afford it? Don’t take it.
If you can’t pay it back immediately? Don’t accept it.
Your word is your credit line in here. You break that? You’re finished.
4. Stand On Your Own Feet
Fights happen.
They’re unavoidable.
They’re part of the ecosystem.
But the code is simple:
You don’t run.
You don’t fold.
And you sure as hell don’t hide behind someone else.
You stand up — even if you get beat down — because pride and respect matter more than winning.
I’ve lost fights.
But I’ve never lost my name.
That’s the difference.
5. Don’t Steal, Don’t Touch Another Man’s Property
Theft in prison is like a death sentence with a slow timeline.
Touch a man’s food, his radio, his pictures, his girl’s letters?
Congratulations — you just wrote your own incident report written in blood, not ink.
Respect is survival.
Disrespect is a war you do NOT want.
6. Don’t Play with Kids or Rats — Ever
There’s two types of people in here nobody wants around:
Chomos (you know what that means).
And snitches.
They don’t get protection.
They don’t get respect.
They don’t get conversation.
Most of the time, they don’t even get to breathe easy.
The yard polices itself, and trust me — it does.
7. Loyalty Is Everything — Until It Isn’t
The code says be loyal.
Ride with your people.
Don’t fold under pressure.
But here’s the secret no one on the outside understands:
Inside these walls, loyalty has layers.
It ain’t simple.
It ain’t pretty.
Sometimes it’s survival disguised as brotherhood.
You learn real quick who’s genuine and who’s acting.
And usually? The loudest ones break first.
The quiet ones — the ones who’ve been through hell — they’re the ones who keep it solid.
8. The Strongest Man Ain’t the Biggest — It’s the One Who Controls Himself
You want to know who really has power?
It ain’t the guy screaming.
It ain’t the guy with the muscles.
It ain’t the guy who swings first.
It’s the man who knows when violence is necessary and when it’s stupid.
Everyone wants to prove something in here.
Only a few understand when not to.
Self-control in the middle of chaos?
That’s real strength.
9. Never Get Too Comfortable
Comfort in prison is a setup.
The moment you relax, you become a target.
The moment you trust someone too much, you get blindsided.
The moment you think you “understand” the system, it shifts beneath you.
You sleep light.
You listen heavy.
And you stay alert because safety is an illusion.
10. Family on the Outside? You Protect Them by Staying Alive and Staying Smart
People think inmates don’t care about family, about wives, about kids, about the people writing them and fighting for them.
Let me tell you the truth:
Family is the ONLY reason most of us don’t lose our minds in here.
My wife… she’s my lifeline, my clarity, my anchor, my reminder of who I am outside this zoo.
She’s the reason I walk away from dumb shit.
She’s the reason I don’t pick up a shank when someone disrespects me.
She’s the reason I’m still a husband, not just an inmate number.
The convict code keeps you alive.
But love?
Love keeps you human.
The Code Isn’t About Being a Criminal — It’s About Staying Alive in a World Built to Break You
People judge inmates like we’re animals.
But let me tell you — animals don’t follow rules this strict.
The convict code is discipline.
It’s boundary.
It’s structure.
It’s the only system that actually works in a place where the official system fails daily.
You don’t have to like it.
You don’t have to understand it.
But in here?
It’s the difference between making it home one day… or not.
And me?
I plan on making it home.
Because my wife deserves that.
And I deserve a life where I don’t have to look over my shoulder to remember the rules.
Out there, the world runs on laws.
In here?
We run on the code.
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